标题 | 开心放手,迎接下一站 |
正文 | 有人说,世上最浪漫的两种情感,莫过于一种是爱到开心放手,另一种便是恨了依然爱着。 轻轻地,柔柔的,拾起一枚秋天的落叶叶儿,轻薄的没有丝毫份量,只有映入眼帘的抹抹瑟黄,任它清晰地脉络与掌心纠结的曲线重重叠叠,纠纠缠缠,看不出端倪,亦逃不出羁绊。就像人的感情,纠纠缠缠,少不了的是羁绊和伤害。 我一直都觉得,没有人值得我们经常去流眼泪,因为值得我们去流眼泪的人总是舍不得我们去哭,更别说经常让我们去哭泣。所以,如果可以的话,不要用恨去结束一段爱,请试着,请学着去忘记。因为我一直都觉得只有开心放手,才能更好的去迎接爱你的人,不要因为摘不到一颗星星,而放弃整个星空。 不可否认,失恋确实带给人很大的痛苦和烦恼,那种挫败感如同炸药般让你短时间内接受不了。落花有意,流水无情,短期的痛苦和悲伤是可以理解的,但如果一直沉淀于这种痛苦中而无法自拔,那就非常不明智了。虽然他(她)已离去,可生活仍然要继续,不是吗?如果因为丢失了爱情,而把自己的学业,工作,人生也丢掉,自我也丢掉,那你还能做什么? 他(她)的离开,不是因为你不够好,只是你们不适合而已,而且他(她)的离开使你的身边少了一个不爱你的人,而他(她)的身边却少了一个真心爱他的人,这对他来说绝对是他的损失,不是吗? 所以说,为失恋而痛苦不堪的人,必须学会自我调节,自我拯救。虽然爱情不在,可还有亲情和友情相伴,这段感情你是失败了,但只有放手了,你才能拥有下一段感情,既然流水无情,你又何必牢牢抓着不放,让自己痛苦. 与其握在手中让彼此都痛苦,不如选择放手,开心去迎接下一站,也唯有这样你才会遇到下一个爱你的人,才能....... Happy to let it go, to meet the next stop It is said that two of the most romantic feelings in the world, is a kind of is happy love to let go, another is still in love with hate. Gently, soft, picked up a gold autumn leaves the balm, frivolous no weight, only wipes greeted Mr Huang, let it clear context and contrasting with the palms of tangled curve, rectifying entwine, you couldn't see, also don't escape from the fetters. As people's feelings, rectifying entangled bound, is little not fetter and damage. I always think, we often go to no man or woman is worth tears, because is worth us to tears always won't us to cry, let alone often let us to weep. So, if you can, don't use hate to end a period of love, please try, please learn to forget. Because I always think only happy to let it go, to better to meet the people who love you, don't cry because it is a star, reach and give up the whole sky. There is no denying the fact that love really bring people a lot of pain and the worry, that kind of frustration like dynamite can't let you in a short period of time. Has nothing, running water ruthless, short-term pain and sorrow is understandable, but if has been precipitated in the pain and unable to extricate themselves, it would be unwise. Although he (she) has already gone, but life is still to continue, isn't it? If because of lost love, and his own school, work, life is lost, also lost self, what can you do that? He (she) leave, not because you is not good enough, just not suitable for you, and he (she) leave your side a do not love you, but he (she) side less a man really love him, for he is his loss, isn't it? So painful for the lovelorn people, must learn to self adjusting, self rescue. Although not love, but also by the family love and friendship, the relationship you are failed, but only to let go, you can have a relationship, since water ruthless, firmly holding, you why let his pain. Instead of holding in your hand to let each other pain, be inferior to choose to let go, happy to meet the next stop, and only so that you will encounter a love you of person, can we... |
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